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Title: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on December 20, 2012, 05:02:58 AM
This is Mark's wife Pamela.  I know how much you all helped with the orphanage project this year and how much your friendship mean to Mark. 
I will be brief because I don't have a lot of time but I wanted to let you all know about Mark's car accident.
Yesterday Mark was driving his Trabont on the taxi way of the air base here in Papa.  There was a large cable stretched across the road.  Mark didn't see the cable and hit it straight on.  Either from the cable/windshied etc. his face and jaw was broken in 6 places with half of his face being cut but still attached.  They thought in the beginning he could be paralyzed because of the inpact but the ct scans proved his spine was ok.  He was in surgery for 7 hours and is now in ICU recovering.  As of this moment he has a trachoetomy in to help him breath.  In the futer he will probably be moved to Vienna because of the translation problem.  I will try my best to keep you all informed but I have 5 children and myself to help get through this.  Mark is strong and healthy and most of all he has the Lord.  If any of you pray, please pray for him.  This process will be a long road ahead mostly for him but also us as a family.
Blessings to you all for helping with the orphanage this year.  A friend of mine will be taking the gifts to the children.  I've asked her to take lots of pictures so I can post them for you all to see. 
Merry Christmas to you all, and give each of your loved ones a hug because life is short and you never know what each day will bring.
Pamela Gilbertson
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: The General on December 20, 2012, 05:36:02 AM
Ohh Pam. I am so sorry to hear the news. Didn`t see your post till after I posted the shirts Pic. (Funds from the Bulk buy are for 2013 Angel tree). I know Mark will be in all our Prayers. Please keep us posted when you can.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Klavdy on December 20, 2012, 06:12:43 AM
Thoughts are with you all.
If there is something we could do to help,please say so.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: flips on December 20, 2012, 06:16:18 AM
That's terrible news.My thought's,prayers and best wishes are with Mark for a speedy recovery and with you and your family for the strength and courage to make it through.

Jeff P
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Grey runner on December 20, 2012, 07:14:31 AM
I have never met you or Mark but my thoughts and heart felt sympathy go out to You, Mark and your children and I will certainly say a pray for you.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: craigo on December 20, 2012, 07:17:00 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with Mark. May he have a speedy recovery and all of you are back together soon.

CraigO & Liane
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Dan Filetti on December 20, 2012, 07:25:17 AM
Pam and Family.  I have always been struck by the kindness I see in your husband.  I have not met him in person, but his kindness has been palpable through what he wrote, and his deeds.  Please know that we are all pulling for him.  Take care.

Dan 
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Arnie on December 20, 2012, 07:29:02 AM
So glad it was not fatal for Mark.
Wishing him all the best for a speedy recovery.

Arnie
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: 93fj1200 on December 20, 2012, 08:12:58 AM
Best wishes and a speedy recovery so he can get back to doing his good work.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Steve_in_Florida on December 20, 2012, 09:18:14 AM

Healing thoughts and good wishes are coming your way from Florida.

You and your family are wonderful people!

I sincerely wish the best for Mark.

Steve

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Pat Conlon on December 20, 2012, 09:31:20 AM
Pam, our prayers are going out to you, Mark and your family from Palm Desert, Ca.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: 56 CHEVY on December 20, 2012, 09:59:06 AM
Our prayers and thoughts going out to Mark and his family from Minnesota.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: FJmonkey on December 20, 2012, 11:01:01 AM
Pamela, thank you for taking the time to post and share the news. Not easy to do at this time for you. My heart and prayers go out to your family for the healing and support that you need right now.  We are all looking forward to hearing progress reports on Mark and your family when you have the time. 
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: axiom-r on December 20, 2012, 11:01:59 AM
Positive thoughts with Mark, Pam and the children...  sad news.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Marsh White on December 20, 2012, 11:03:23 AM
Quote from: Dan Filetti on December 20, 2012, 07:25:17 AM
Pam and Family.  I have always been struck by the kindness I see in your husband.  I have not met him in person, but his kindness has been palpable through what he wrote, and his deeds.  Please know that we are all pulling for him.  Take care.

Dan 

Dan summed up my thoughts perfectly.  I couldn't possibly imagine what you and your husband are going through.  I am sending my love, thoughts & prayers your way.  When you can, please let him know that he is in all of our thoughts.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: racerman_27410 on December 20, 2012, 11:10:25 AM

This is really sad news about such a good person and family.
Many prayers going up for Mark from North Carolina.

if you need anything at all please be sure and let us know.


Frank
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: justdon on December 20, 2012, 11:22:21 AM
I don't know the gentleman but what i see here shows he is a class act..God bless you and you have my prayers..
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: movenon on December 20, 2012, 11:47:45 AM
I am saddened to hear this news. My thoughts are with you and your family. I pray for a his speedy recovery. I am glad he is OK and has family there with him. It makes a difference.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: ddlewis on December 20, 2012, 12:06:12 PM
Like the others, only know him from his posts here and he also strikes me as one of the genuinely good guys.  Prayers for a quick recovery.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: tmkaos on December 20, 2012, 12:42:41 PM
Wishing him a speedy recovery from NZ. We'll all be thinking of you guys over the holidays.

James
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: oz.fj on December 20, 2012, 02:32:06 PM
 Our thoughts of a speedy recovery go out to Mark

Darran & Danielle
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Firehawk068 on December 20, 2012, 02:50:10 PM
I always look forward to reading Mark's posts.........about his family, his activities, his insight into living in a foreign country, and about his big heart!

Very sad news for all of us.
I'm sure you will let him know that we are all hoping his road to recovery will be as short as possible............

Keep us posted when you can......We'll be thinking about all of you over there. :hi:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Harvy on December 20, 2012, 04:13:36 PM
Best wishes Mark, Pam and the kids from me too......pull thru Mark and keep those wonderful stories and pictures of yours coming asap.

Harvy
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: fj11.5 on December 20, 2012, 05:01:26 PM
Hope mark has a quick recovery ,, why do things like this always happen to great people , best wishes to yourself mark and your children, my thoughts are with you ,,
Best regards
Rodney from TASMANIA
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: WhiteBeard on December 20, 2012, 05:04:07 PM
Sad to hear this.
Sending good thoughts over there.

Heal well.

Nat from Sweden.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Bill_Rockoff on December 20, 2012, 06:31:18 PM
Pamela, we've enjoyed hearing about Mark's travels through Hungary.  Please pass along our well-wishes for him.  You guys are in our thoughts.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: 1tinindian on December 20, 2012, 06:33:08 PM
Heartbreaking news Pam.
Mark has such a gift of bringing a different part of the world into our homes.
I always have to share the wonderful things he has to show us with my family.
He brings a unique view of the world most of us will never get to see, and with that, he makes this motorcycle site more than a place to just talk about bikes.

My heart goes out to you and your family, and I wish Mark a complete recovery.
Merry Christmas to you, Mark, and your wonderful kids, from a snowy Iowa.

Leon
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: big r on December 20, 2012, 07:34:58 PM
Pam, I've not met you or Mark, but I really enjoyed his posts on the forum. I wish you and him the best and hope things improve. Best wishes from Canada. Big R
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: cyclenutk75 on December 20, 2012, 08:15:26 PM
Abundant prayers going up from Shreve, OH for Marks healing and a full recovery.  Also for strength and comfort for your family.  You've demonstrated your strength by taking the time to post this for Mark's on-line friends at a very difficult time.  For that I thank you.

GT
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Tiger on December 20, 2012, 09:11:30 PM
Such sad news, especially at this time of year...

With all that you and your family have achieved with the orphanage children project, may your goodness and kindness be rewarded with Mark's speedy and full recovery.

Thoughts and prayers go out to you, Mark and your family.

John (Canada).
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: BSI on December 20, 2012, 09:34:40 PM
Pam...I'm very sad to hear this but also thankful that Mark survived...seeing a post on here from Mark always makes me eager to click on it because they're always so enjoyable and Mark just projects good vibes...as others have said, please don't hesitate if there's anything we can do to help you...all of you will definitely be in my prayers...God Bless

Louie
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: I make oil on December 21, 2012, 01:10:30 AM
Sorry to hear about his accident.  Prayers going out for a speedy recovery.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Alf on December 21, 2012, 01:49:24 AM
I´m very very sorry to read these news. A good hug for you and your family and my best wishes for a fast and total recovery
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: RichBaker on December 21, 2012, 02:52:15 AM
Terrible news, good to hear he will recover.....  You are all in my thoughts!
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: gripit_N_ripit on December 21, 2012, 07:34:02 AM
get better mark! Get better Man, we're all pushin for ya!
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Derek Young on December 21, 2012, 07:40:10 AM
My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.  Give each of your kids an extra hug from all of us here.  Speedy recovery Mark.

Derek
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: markmartin on December 21, 2012, 09:22:22 AM
Sorry to hear about such a bad thing happening to a such good person.   Best wishes for a speedy recovery and let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this difficult time.

Mark
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: weymouth399 on December 21, 2012, 09:28:43 AM
You have all of the FJ nation praying for you. And many more I'm sure.

Best wishes Bob W
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a near fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: 1tinindian on December 21, 2012, 12:46:48 PM
Now that we all know that Mark is alive ,maybe we should change the topic to "Near Fatal Accident".
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: candieandy on December 21, 2012, 02:28:14 PM
Thoughts a prayers for mark and his family. God will provide.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Country Joe on December 21, 2012, 03:06:56 PM
Prayers sent from Arkansas for Mark, Pamela and children.


         Joe
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Post by: aviationfred on December 21, 2012, 04:18:48 PM
My best wishes and prayers go out to you and Mark.


Fred
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: fj1289 on December 21, 2012, 05:37:18 PM
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Wish we were closer to be able to help out our extended FJ and Air Force family. Any paperwork or BS you need help with please let us know.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: JCainFJ on December 21, 2012, 05:48:37 PM
You have all of our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything ealse we can do.

Jon
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Mark Olson on December 22, 2012, 01:18:21 AM
Pamela, thank you for posting and please know that Mark ,you and the children are in our prayers. I have enjoyed hearing of the adventures in hungry and though I have never met Mark I believe him to be a good decent man , loving husband and father. May you be blessed with a Christmas miracle and a quick full recovery.

Mark & Pamela Olson
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: CanDman on December 22, 2012, 02:55:55 PM
 Romans 8:27-29 NIV (New International Version)


27And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God's people in accordance with the will of God.

28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, and who have been called according to his purpose.

29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son

Hi Pam, I have not had the pleasure of meeting my brother Mark, but there is no doubt that one day I will. Godspeed with His Divine healing and purose.....our prayers will be with you and your family


The CanDman Clan  
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: ribbert on December 22, 2012, 06:18:15 PM
An orphanage full of abandoned kids is a heartbreaking place then good people like yourselves come along with 5 of your own to care for and still find enough time, love and generosity of spirit to bring some joy into their lives and then this.  It's not right, it shouldn't happen to the good guys.

I, like many here enjoy Marks reports and observations of the quirkiness of life in Hungary and look forward to their resumption, even if from a different perspective for a while.

No two things seem further apart than being in hospital and the thought of cruising the open road on the FJ, but it's very potent medicine.

A speedy and full recovery, I need to know if the locals have actually started riding their push bikes yet.

Noel
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Tapartacus on December 23, 2012, 03:33:54 AM
Pamela, my prayers and thought are with you, Mark and your family.

Andrew
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Goetz on December 23, 2012, 06:22:09 AM
Praying.
Also gonna check and see if We have any folks over there who you could talk to.
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Post by: carsick on December 23, 2012, 09:30:18 PM
Damn this is hard to hear, I can only hope that sharing the pain makes it a little easier. You all are in my family's thoughts this holiday season. Heal well Lotso!
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: baldy3853 on December 25, 2012, 08:10:20 AM
Quote from: Marsh White on December 20, 2012, 11:03:23 AM
Quote from: Dan Filetti on December 20, 2012, 07:25:17 AM
Pam and Family.  I have always been struck by the kindness I see in your husband.  I have not met him in person, but his kindness has been palpable through what he wrote, and his deeds.  Please know that we are all pulling for him.  Take care.

Dan 

Dan summed up my thoughts perfectly.  I couldn't possibly imagine what you and your husband are going through.  I am sending my love, thoughts & prayers your way.  When you can, please let him know that he is in all of our thoughts.
I'm with Dan and Marsh and their sentiments, was only talking to the General the other day to see if there was a way for us to help Mark and you on your endeavors Pam now will be talking with my higher power hoping that will help in Marks recovery
Baldy
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Mark Olson on December 25, 2012, 10:18:45 AM
Merry Christmas to Pamela ,Mark and the kids . I am praying for a positive outcome for your family. 
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a near fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on December 31, 2012, 03:32:53 AM
Quote from: cyclenutk75 on December 20, 2012, 08:15:26 PM
You've demonstrated your strength by taking the time to post this for Mark's on-line friends at a very difficult time. For that I thank you.
GT

Here I am, guys - MARK. I am typing on a Hungarian keyboard, so this will take a while. I'm sitting at the nurse's station now because of wireless connection problems.

I'm not sure why my wife said I was in a fatal car accident. Very, VERY close, though. :unknown:

I made it through the first 2 pages of posts before getting choked up... and where my injuries are, that's really painful.
I have a photo I will show you taken as I climbed into the ambulance. As my wife says, "My head was a ball of blood, hair, bone parts, and teeth." There's a visual for you. The cable was unmarked and I caught it in my mouth, shattering my jawbone and actually cracked my skull. Blood was EVERYWHERE. My eyes were completely black and bleeding. I went into a coma for 5 days and regained consciousness 4 days ago. Pam continued to get calls from the hospital with their concern that I was not responding and I might not make it. Imagine having to deal with THAT.

I still have a feeding tube installed which is very painful. They told me they would remove it tomorrow. When I get full internet access I'll show you that picture I know you all want to see. I showed it to my roommate, and he yelled in Hungarian, "Jesus Christ is looking out for YOU, buddy!!!" He's right. God is very good to me and my family!
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: fj11.5 on December 31, 2012, 03:40:09 AM
 :good2:  welcome back mate, great to know you can at least get around now  :yahoo: , be the best Christmas present your family has ever had, having you up and about ,, heal fast mate, your kookaloo awaits
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: racerrad8 on December 31, 2012, 03:44:16 AM
Mark, I am glad to hear you are doing well considering what you have been through, what still lies ahead for you and yet you have the ability to reply.

Continue to recover as you are in our constant thoughts.

Great news and Happy New Year.

Randy - RPM
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: BSI on December 31, 2012, 04:31:23 AM
Mark....seeing you be able to make a post is the best Holiday Blessing that could happen around here...may God Bless your continued recovery!

Louie
Title: Re: Mark Gilbertson...will be ok.
Post by: Steve_in_Florida on December 31, 2012, 04:35:48 AM

You are one lucky guy! I'm really glad you're back with us.

Steve

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Harvy on December 31, 2012, 05:10:51 AM
Welcome back Mark.......just in time for the new year. I will have a beer for you seein as you probably can't at the moment.... :drinks:

All the best mate.
Harvy
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Tiger on December 31, 2012, 05:41:43 AM
Absolutely SUPERB news my friend, news that a great number of your extended family, (old and new), along with all your direct family and loved ones, have been waiting for... :yahoo:

We all wish you a speedy recovery and hope to 'hear' more from you as the days/weeks/months go by... :good2:

God speed.....may he continue to watch over you.

John.
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Post by: The General on December 31, 2012, 06:17:24 AM
You have returned. Awesome. 
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: 1tinindian on December 31, 2012, 07:09:17 AM
Happy that you have posted.
Please take care.

Leon
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Dan Filetti on December 31, 2012, 07:13:54 AM
Rumors of your demise have been greatly exaggerated.  Welcome back to the world of the living, Mark.  :)

It is damn fine to see you posting up.  Thank you for taking the trouble to post up -from the nurse's station... It's odd, I have carried your story around with me mentioning it to a few friends.  I found myself worrying for a man I have never met.  I'm not really the worrying type so this is even more unusual.  I am relieved to see you post up and wish you a speedy recovery.  

Happy New Year,

Dan      
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Goetz on December 31, 2012, 07:18:32 AM
I'll keep praying for you, glad you werent on the bike when you met that cable. God bless you!
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: big r on December 31, 2012, 08:04:10 AM
Glad to hear you are up and about. The big GUY up there was watching out for you. I am happy to shear you are starting to mend. Get well and hopefully have a real good new year.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Arnie on December 31, 2012, 08:56:30 AM
Great that you are up and about.  Congratulations.
About that picture..... you've painted a mental image that is more than adequate.  I know you've been lucky to have survived, I don't need to see just "how" lucky, thank you.
Keep mending quickly.

BTW  How badly damaged was the car?  total ?

Cheers,
Arnie
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: FJmonkey on December 31, 2012, 09:09:32 AM
Very nice to read your last post, looking forward to news of your healing and recovery. With a start of the new year like this, you have to think that it can only get better.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: rktmanfj on December 31, 2012, 09:15:25 AM

Damned good to see that you are you're up and somewhat ambulatory, Mark... the nurses must love that.     :biggrin:

Continued best wishes for fast healing and complete recovery from the snowy Midwestern US.

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: markmartin on December 31, 2012, 09:41:47 AM
Glad to see the post!  All the best to you and your family and get well soon.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: jamesearthdrum on December 31, 2012, 09:55:00 AM
Fantastic to see your post. Here's to a Happy New year and and a speedy recovery.

james
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: nurse on December 31, 2012, 10:42:45 AM
Might i suggest you consider purchasing a ticket for this weeks Euro Millions Lottery draw!!

Although it sounds like you a pretty mashed up, you have been rather lucky!

Speedy recovery!  Glad to hear you are OK (ish)

Guess this means you wont be selling your bike.....to soon?  Remember laughter is the best medicine, unless of course you are diabetic!!

Mike

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on December 31, 2012, 11:23:54 AM
Quote from: Arnie on December 31, 2012, 08:56:30 AM
BTW  How badly damaged was the car?  total ?

Preliminary findings say it's totalled, but if any of you know about Trabants, I started that way. I plan to drive it as a convertible for a few days though.

FJMonkey - The first meds they put me on were hallucenogenic. When I closed my eyes, all the images were in red and black. Sorry, no white, though. :lol:

I'm still without a password and at the nurse's station. Thanks for your prayers and concern.

Do a "Google Image" search for Hungarian keyboard and see what I have to work with! :wacko2:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Pat Conlon on December 31, 2012, 11:28:54 AM
Quote from: nurse on December 31, 2012, 10:42:45 AM
....... Remember laughter is the best medicine....

uuuh, no, not with a broken jaw.

Mark...Heal well, heal quickly and enjoy those protein shakes!
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a near fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: axiom-r on December 31, 2012, 11:36:49 AM
Quote from: Lotsokids on December 31, 2012, 03:32:53 AM
God is very good to me and my family!


:yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:


Good news !   :good:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: JCainFJ on December 31, 2012, 12:07:03 PM
Thank You! This is good news!!

Jon
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: flips on December 31, 2012, 12:56:13 PM
Mark,Its great to hear your up and about and on the mend!
Happy new year!

Cheers  :drinks:

Jeff P
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: movenon on December 31, 2012, 01:53:45 PM
That's good news. Hope you stay on track for a full recovery :) Makes motorcycles look safe.... In our thoughts and have a good new year.
                                                                                                                                          George and Mary
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: racerman_27410 on December 31, 2012, 03:28:57 PM
I am so happy to see you are back with us and feeling better.  Many prayers for you and your family have gone up and many more to come for your complete healing.

Happy New year Brother !


KOokaloo!


Frank
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: aviationfred on December 31, 2012, 03:52:49 PM
Mark, it is great news that you are on the mend and pulled through this. Happy New Years wishes to you and your family  :drinks:

Fred
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: fj1289 on December 31, 2012, 04:11:49 PM
Welcome back Mark!  Hope the recovery goes well -- and doesn't include too many strange Hungarian custom  :rofl:

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a near fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: 93fj1200 on December 31, 2012, 04:34:22 PM
Welcome back amigo.  My wife Melissa and I wish you a quick recovery and are thinking about you and your wife as well.  Happy New Year and best wishes for everyone else here in the FJ Forum.
Greg
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: baldy3853 on December 31, 2012, 06:34:24 PM
Quote from: The General on December 31, 2012, 06:17:24 AM
You have returned. Awesome. 
Plus 1 Happy new year  :yahoo:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a near fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: cyclenutk75 on December 31, 2012, 08:43:05 PM
Quote from: Lotsokids on December 31, 2012, 03:32:53 AM
Here I am, guys - MARK. I am typing on a Hungarian keyboard, so this will take a while. I'm sitting at the nurse's station now because of wireless connection problems.


WOW!  Great way to end 2012 hearing you're up and about. Great start to the New Year, too.  We'll keep you all on the prayer list for continued healing. Sounds like you've still got a tough row to hoe but, hey, you're back with your family and back in communication mode with us. Can't think of any better news. Hang tough, Bro.

GT
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Steve_in_Florida on January 01, 2013, 01:20:14 PM
Quote from: Lotsokids on December 31, 2012, 11:23:54 AM

FJMonkey - The first meds they put me on were hallucinogenic. When I closed my eyes, all the images were in red and black. Sorry, no white, though. :lol:


That's interesting. I had a bike wreck back in 2006, and vividly recall some of the dreams I had in the hospital the first night. In my case, the colors were red and yellow, with a distinctly Mexican or Aztec flair to the patterns. I imagined myself at some kind of wild party.

Extremely realistic and vivid. Very "Kubla Khan"-like as I recall.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kubla_Khan (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kubla_Khan)

Does it hurt to laugh?

Any idea who was responsible for the cable being where it was? Military bases are usually pretty safety-conscious. Some kind of practical joke gone horribly bad?

What a way to start a new year!

Steve

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: FJmonkey on January 01, 2013, 02:40:08 PM
Quote from: Lotsokids on December 31, 2012, 11:23:54 AM
FJMonkey - The first meds they put me on were hallucenogenic. When I closed my eyes, all the images were in red and black. Sorry, no white, though. :lol:
Mark, nothing to apologize for, its good to know that your hallucinogenic image colors are consistent with your FJ. I wonder if that's why some like their pink stripe so much???
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 01, 2013, 03:59:21 PM
Here come the pics now!

When I climbed into the ambulance. Pretty beat up. My wife said my eyes were completely black and bleeding:
(http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y177/Lotsokids/Trabant/Crash%202012/12192012079.jpg)

My faithful wife who has been through much!
(http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y177/Lotsokids/Trabant/Crash%202012/DSCF0056.jpg)

My kids brought some stuff to me in my backpack, where I found my Oakleys. My kids insisted on a photo:
(http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y177/Lotsokids/Trabant/Crash%202012/DSCF0067.jpg)

This is one of the koala bear toys that Klavdy sent for the orphans. I had an extra that I kept with me:
(http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y177/Lotsokids/Trabant/Crash%202012/DSCF0055.jpg)
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: JCainFJ on January 01, 2013, 04:33:54 PM
Mark,

Thanks for posting those photos, you look good for having had such a bad accident! Take it easy and heal well friend.

Jon
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: spsmith_fj1200 on January 01, 2013, 05:02:14 PM
Mark,

after reading everything I expected that the pictures were going to be really bad.  We can't see all of the broken bones but you like fairly good.

Prayers for your further recovery and thanks for everything that you have already done and will continue to do for the orphans there
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: BSI on January 02, 2013, 07:58:23 AM
thanks for the pics Mark, good to see you hopefully improving....the smile on your wife's face says a lot  :good2:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 02, 2013, 11:24:55 AM
Quote from: fj1289 on December 31, 2012, 04:11:49 PM
Welcome back Mark!  Hope the recovery goes well -- and doesn't include too many strange Hungarian customs :rofl:

Actually the Hungarian recovery ward must be the only place that does not allow you to receive a blanket when you tell them you are cold and ask for one! :dash1:

The doctor checked me today and after I complained about the unending pain, he said, "May I remind you that when you arrived, your face was broken OFF?" ...Motioning with his hands... He has a point. It's going to be a long road to recovery, but seems I have a good start. Thanks again for all your kind words and prayers!
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: aviationfred on January 02, 2013, 01:03:44 PM
Praying that your recovery is swift and leaves no long lasting effects. 
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: racerman_27410 on January 02, 2013, 07:59:48 PM
GIve the man a blanket!!!!!!!!!


good to hear you are on the mend brother.... it does my heart good to see a pic with you and your smiling (and still sane) wife.

Pain is real aint it? I always say its a blessing to be able to feel the pain.... especially considering what could have been.

take care and stay in touch!


Frank
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: movenon on January 02, 2013, 10:39:21 PM
Thanks for the up date and pix.. Yea, cables... What were you doing, RCR or RVR check? :)  I did a little time as AF Manager along my career path ran Base Ops/TA and retired as a fight chief with the 124th Aerial Port. Up in Alaska we used an old SAAB for runway/taxiway checks. Trivia... Glad to see you up and well with a smile. Thoughts are with you, if you need something that we can do from over here let us know... Maybe we can send the "OZ" gang up your way they seem to be a cheery lot ;)
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: I make oil on January 02, 2013, 11:04:33 PM
This is great news!  So glad you on the mend.   :good2:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 03, 2013, 12:59:28 AM
Quote from: movenon on January 02, 2013, 10:39:21 PM
Thanks for the up date and pix.. Yea, cables... What were you doing, RCR or RVR check? :)

Neither. Opening massive hangar doors using the winch cable from the front of a fire truck (stretched across the road).
Yeah, not too safe.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbertson ... will be ok.
Post by: Steve_in_Florida on January 03, 2013, 08:40:28 AM
Quote from: Lotsokids on January 02, 2013, 11:24:55 AM

Actually the Hungarian recovery ward must be the only place that does not allow you to receive a blanket when you tell them you are cold and ask for one!


Word of your criticism toward their national sport of "bicycle pushing" must have gotten `round.

Quote from: Lotsokids on January 02, 2013, 11:24:55 AM

The doctor checked me today and after I complained about the unending pain...


Must be a European thing.

I was recovering in a German hospital after a wreck in `96, and complained to the nurse about the intensity of a constant, burning pain in my leg. She consulted Herr Doktor, who sent her back with some sort of analgesic SUPPOSITORY!

:shok: :shok: :shok: :shok: :shok:

It worked, of course, but I clearly received the message that I was being a pain in THEIR ass!


Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: movenon on January 03, 2013, 10:13:06 AM
"Neither. Opening massive hangar doors using the winch cable from the front of a fire truck (stretched across the road).
Yeah, not too safe."

Those doors are typically pretty large and heavy. But heck it sounded like a good idea.... Next time use more cables and stand back further... :))
Well I am glad you are with us and healing. Made a few marginal judgements myself. One time it was referred to as "corporate experience". I ended up with a lot of it...
I see they pulled the "trake" and that is good. I know more about "trakes" than I ever needed to know. Not me, but a family member that's been on one for the last year.

While over in Italy they briefed us that if we had a "significant" medical problem to try our best to get back to the base, because the Italian medical system had a different approach when it came to pain management. I didn't want to find out.

All I can recommend is close your eyes listen to some Jimmy Buffet music think about palm tree's, clear blue water, white sandy beach's with a cool drink. Take a mental vacation........
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Mark Olson on January 03, 2013, 12:00:48 PM
Mark , great to see you post again . take it easy and try to relax . it is apparent that you had a lot of good karma points built up.

Happy new year  :dance2:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 10, 2013, 05:30:32 AM
Here's my mouth X-Ray. I count about 43 screws plus plates holding my face together. Fractures everywhere. Even in my skull.

(http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y177/Lotsokids/Trabant/Crash%202012/Mouth_Xray.jpg)
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: 93fj1200 on January 10, 2013, 07:25:22 AM
That just looks painful.  Hope it gets better quickly.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: FJmonkey on January 10, 2013, 07:53:25 AM
Keep that X-ray handy when you travel. You will need it to explain why you set off the metal detector. It is truly amazing how much damage our bodies can take and how well the medical field is in putting them back together. Did you finally get your blanket?
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: The General on January 10, 2013, 10:45:42 AM
Hannibal Lecter use to scare me.......till now.   (When Pete emailed me that you were in good medical hands.....he wasn`t kidding!)
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 10, 2013, 01:52:40 PM
Quote from: FJmonkey on January 10, 2013, 07:53:25 AM
Did you finally get your blanket?

Yes, when I got home. They never gave me one in the hospital.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: FJmonkey on January 10, 2013, 03:01:30 PM
Quote from: Lotsokids on January 10, 2013, 01:52:40 PM
Quote from: FJmonkey on January 10, 2013, 07:53:25 AM
Did you finally get your blanket?

Yes, when I got home. They never gave me one in the hospital.

Well I guess its better than them giving you one by the suppository method.  :ireful:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbertson ... will be ok.
Post by: Steve_in_Florida on January 10, 2013, 05:12:29 PM
Quote from: Lotsokids on January 10, 2013, 05:30:32 AM

...I count about 43 screws plus plates holding my face together.


Imagine what they're going to think in the future when they find your skull!

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: baldy3853 on January 10, 2013, 05:18:57 PM
 :yahoo: glad u are on the mend and can smile now  :good2:
Baldy
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: racerman_27410 on January 10, 2013, 10:36:19 PM
Quote from: FJmonkey on January 10, 2013, 03:01:30 PM
Quote from: Lotsokids on January 10, 2013, 01:52:40 PM
Quote from: FJmonkey on January 10, 2013, 07:53:25 AM
Did you finally get your blanket?

Yes, when I got home. They never gave me one in the hospital.

Well I guess its better than them giving you one by the suppository method.  :ireful:

you're killing me brother monkey  ..... if we were sitting beside the campfire and you said that to Mark (and you know you would) i would have prolly sprayed or snorted my beverage just a bit!   :lol: 

I told ya Its pillage.... THEN burn!  :good2:


KOokaloo!

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a NEAR-fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: gdfj12 on January 18, 2013, 10:36:53 AM
Mark,

We've never met & I'm mostly a lurker around hear, but you still have my sympathies, I hope you heal well & soon! I'm thinking positive thoughts for you & your family.

George
'89 FJ1200
88/94 Ninja 250R
soon another FJ . . . .
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 18, 2013, 01:20:45 PM
Thank you, George. It's a LONG road for my healing. The doctor just told me today that he recommends I wait a couple months to get completely healed before any further corrective surgery. *sigh*

I am thankful that I am not any worse than I am. I saw some pictures of my old car a couple days ago. WHAT A MESS. The cable ripped my hood off, went through the windshield, cut through both left and right posts, then (as believed) caught me in the mouth. My seat back failed and sent me into the back seat, which might have saved my life. The cable dented the left and right rear door jamb just forward of the rear windows. There was blood all over the left rear window.

It could have easily taken my life. God is very good to me.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: spsmith_fj1200 on January 18, 2013, 06:52:45 PM
Mark,

God still wants you and your family to continue all of the work you have been doing in the Hungary with the orphans.  Best wishes for a fast and complete recovery.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Klavdy on January 18, 2013, 06:57:10 PM
You'll be O.K?
That's good.
Bummer about the car, we all grew quite fond of it.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 25, 2013, 08:27:53 AM
Just got out of the hospital again today. I just spent another week there. I had to go to the emergency room with a blood clot in my right leg. From what I read about them, they could be fatal, so I went immediately. On blood thinner now. This is common when a person has extended periods of inactivity.

What next? :pardon:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbertson ...will be ok.
Post by: Steve_in_Florida on January 25, 2013, 08:35:29 AM
Quote from: Lotsokids on January 25, 2013, 08:27:53 AM

This is common when a person has extended periods of inactivity.

What next?


Well, the OBVIOUS answer would be MORE ACTIVITY!!   :empathy3:

(you asked.)

Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: movenon on January 25, 2013, 08:52:00 AM
Hang in there Mark. Glad you went to the emergency room on the blood clot. I had a friend that died of one and he wasn't really inactive. He just failed to identify the problem and tough it out. It has been known to happen in aircraft sitting cramped for many hours. Please watch the blood thinners also. If you get a persistent head ache or dizzy spells then shag your butt back to the emergency room. That also go's for any blood in places that it shouldn't be if you get my drift... They probably gave you all the info on that. I am not a doctor. Just had bunch of life experience.
I am glad the cheap ass seat gave way. Sounds like it did save your life. Is there anything we can reasonably do for you from over here ? Get well.
George
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: andyb on January 26, 2013, 04:14:07 AM
Quote from: movenon on January 25, 2013, 08:52:00 AM
Hang in there Mark. Glad you went to the emergency room on the blood clot. I had a friend that died of one and he wasn't really inactive. He just failed to identify the problem and tough it out. It has been known to happen in aircraft sitting cramped for many hours. Please watch the blood thinners also. If you get a persistent head ache or dizzy spells then shag your butt back to the emergency room. That also go's for any blood in places that it shouldn't be if you get my drift... They probably gave you all the info on that. I am not a doctor. Just had bunch of life experience.
I am glad the cheap ass seat gave way. Sounds like it did save your life. Is there anything we can reasonably do for you from over here ? Get well.
George


+1

Blood clots can kill you in all sorts of really interesting ways.

The danger with blood thinners is that frequently the docs get a bit overzealous with them, and as mentioned a persistent headache, double vision, etc can mean that you've gone the other way and can mean that you're on the doorstep of having a massive stroke.  The treatment is a bit gruesome (they drill a hole into your head to relieve the pressure), but it beats the hell out of losing a big pile of brain function.

G`luck, carry on.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 30, 2013, 01:53:31 PM
I found my old car today under a cover. It's still confiscated for the investigation.

Here's what a miracle looks like. How can someone live through this? I thank God for sparing my life!

(http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y177/Lotsokids/Trabant/Crash%202012/Interior.jpg)

In this photo you can see the dent where the cable stopped. There is still much of my blood in the back seat and splashed on the rear side window. It hit me HARD - right in the mouth.

(http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y177/Lotsokids/Trabant/Crash%202012/Left_Side.jpg)
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: tmkaos on January 30, 2013, 02:59:10 PM
3 thoughts come to mind when I looked at these pics..

1. I'm glad you made out of that alive.

2. I sincerely hope that whatever set of unfortunate circumstances led up to that incident cannot be replicated again.

3. How fast were you travelling? - Not asked in a "Slow down you bloody fool!" way but more I'd be interested to know from an engineering point of view. My understanding of Trabants is they are a shining example of Communism vs Engineering. (Not good, in case nobody got that..) :good2:

Glad you're up and about.

James
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on January 31, 2013, 01:23:40 AM
Quote from: tmkaos on January 30, 2013, 02:59:10 PM

2. I sincerely hope that whatever set of unfortunate circumstances led up to that incident cannot be replicated again.

3. How fast were you travelling? - Not asked in a "Slow down you bloody fool!" way but more I'd be interested to know from an engineering point of view. My understanding of Trabants is they are a shining example of Communism vs Engineering. (Not good, in case nobody got that..) :good2:

2. Yes, that was quite a shake up at the base here.

3. This happened about 50 yards from where I was parked, so speed was not an issue, especially with my Trabant's lack of acceleration! Trabants are called a "paper car" by the Hungarians, who don't like them either. A few of us Americans bought them more as a joke.
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Mark Olson on January 31, 2013, 11:19:54 AM
you have an angel on your right  shoulder , watch out for the devil on the other one .
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: Lotsokids on February 11, 2013, 03:39:14 PM
Well, 2 of the 5 jawbone pieces they put back together did not take. They are dead and will be removed with 2 teeth on Wednesday, Feb. 13. Your prayers are appreciated. As one friend told me, "No matter what happens, it won't be as bad as what you've already been through." True, I suppose.

It's a long road, guys. I'm getting weary of all this. I still have the RPM spin-on oil filter conversion and a new 41-tooth rear sprocket to install, but I cannot get motivated at all. The simplest projects seem difficult for me to focus and finish. Of course, it's difficult when it feels like someone is standing on your face all day. Not much pain, just a LOT of pressure.

Thanks, guys. Still thankful I'm vertical and not 6 feet under. :good2:
Title: Re: Mark Gilbrtson was in a fatal car accident yesterday, he will be ok.
Post by: FJmonkey on February 11, 2013, 03:48:12 PM
Stay on the green side of the grass for a while longer.

Green Side of the Grass (NEW comical song/video about aging!) AGING SONG (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dbBfXCMbH4#ws)