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Title: What has been seen...
Post by: pdxfj on March 02, 2016, 11:23:58 PM
Cannot be unseen...

Being observant and having really good hearing can be a bad thing at times...

So after having lunch with a friend today, we were walking back to his truck and there was a newer white Kia sedan parked in front of him.  I happen to notice it's running and glance into the car to see if anyone is in it.  Sure enough I see someone sitting in the passengers seat.  Then I notice there are two people in the passengers seat, and see that they are quite hot and heavy into things.

Didn't really think much of it, other than it was somewhat odd since it was the middle of the day, in a parking lot with no shade, cover, privacy, etc.  But hey..whatever..

Jump in the truck, turn around to get the seat belt, turn my head back around while not thinking and looked through the windshield into the car that was parked in front of us...

Suddenly realize it's two dudes in the car getting it on... :bad: :bad: :bad: :bad: :bad: :bad:

BRAIN BLEACH NEEDED ON ISLE 5!!!!
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: 4everFJ on March 03, 2016, 04:13:20 AM
Being a little homophobic...  :pardon:
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: fj1289 on March 03, 2016, 07:50:51 AM
Quote from: 4everFJ on March 03, 2016, 04:13:20 AM
Being a little homophobic...  :pardon:

Or simply stating he'd prefer having the choice of whether to watch or not - as opposed to having it presented as a public display in an inappropriate manner. 
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: 4everFJ on March 03, 2016, 08:20:17 AM
Quote from: fj1289 on March 03, 2016, 07:50:51 AM
Quote from: 4everFJ on March 03, 2016, 04:13:20 AM
Being a little homophobic...  :pardon:

Or simply stating he'd prefer having the choice of whether to watch or not - as opposed to having it presented as a public display in an inappropriate manner.  

Agree, I was commenting on his last two lines. A statement about inappropriate manners, didn't need those two lines..

In a community the size of FJowners, statistics tells us that some will be gay, some will be black, some will be handicapped, etc, etc..  In fact, it is probably a minority that is "normal" (whatever that is...)

I hope there is room for everybody  :flag_of_truce:
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: fj1289 on March 03, 2016, 09:17:46 AM
I still don't see how that makes Mr Bean homophobic -- what did he do to impede their civil rights or civil liberties? 
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: Zwartie on March 03, 2016, 09:57:49 AM
I don't think that being homophobic requires one to impede civil rights or liberties. That being said, I likely would have been surprised as well as I would have initially assumed it was a guy and a girl. It happened to be two consenting adults - so be it. My sister has been out of the closet for 15 years and prior to that she had been married for 11 years. She is the happiest, best version of herself that she's ever been and has an amazing partner. I couldn't be more happy for them.

That's all I have to say about that.

Zwartie

Quote from: fj1289 on March 03, 2016, 09:17:46 AM
I still don't see how that makes Mr Bean homophobic -- what did he do to impede their civil rights or civil liberties? 
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: Firehawk068 on March 03, 2016, 10:05:32 AM
Even if someone were to be "Homophobic", why is that a bad thing?
It is a matter of personal choice and preference, and in this day of excessive "Political Correctness" why is it frowned upon for a straight guy to voice his displeasure in seeing a public display of "2-Dudes"?

I have nothing against the Gay population. It doesn't affect me either way. I even have friends that are Gay, but I simply don't partake in that lifestyle.

Some people are more sensitive to it than others. For some it is Religious based beliefs. For others it may be moral, or scientific, or biological.
Not everyone believes in that lifestyle.

In all fairness, if the Gay community is going to openly put it out there, then they are going to have to be openly tolerant of everyone else's beliefs also.
(Religious, Scientific, Straight, Gay, or otherwise.......)
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: rktmanfj on March 03, 2016, 10:24:00 AM
Quote from: Firehawk068 on March 03, 2016, 10:05:32 AM
Even if someone were to be "Homophobic", why is that a bad thing?
It is a matter of personal choice and preference, and in this day of excessive "Political Correctness" why is it frowned upon for a straight guy to voice his displeasure in seeing a public display of "2-Dudes"?

I have nothing against the Gay population. It doesn't affect me either way. I even have friends that are Gay, but I simply don't partake in that lifestyle.

Some people are more sensitive to it than others. For some it is Religious based beliefs. For others it may be moral, or scientific, or biological.
Not everyone believes in that lifestyle.

In all fairness, if the Gay community is going to openly put it out there, then they are going to have to be openly tolerant of everyone else's beliefs also.
(Religious, Scientific, Straight, Gay, or otherwise.......)


^^THIS^^  :good2:
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: giantkiller on March 03, 2016, 11:20:41 AM
A friend of mine is a country cop. He is always getting calls about 2-dudes going at it in the tall grass at the scenic overlook just outside of town. Always 2 guys never a guy/girl, or lesbians. I you're going to do that don't subject the general public/children to it.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: Pat Conlon on March 03, 2016, 12:06:31 PM
Palm Springs, CA has an open gay community, very active, very vocal. They are a tremendous asset to the community.

I have several gay friends and they are some of the nicest guys you would want to meet. Top notch human beings. Compassionate to a fault.

However...

That said, seeing two guys french kissing in public *still* makes me uncomfortable. I know it's me....I'm working on it...still, I feel what I feel...

It's progress not perfection.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: FeralRdr on March 03, 2016, 01:19:43 PM
Quote from: 4everFJ on March 03, 2016, 04:13:20 AM
Being a little homophobic...  :pardon:

Who are you to judge?
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: The General on March 03, 2016, 02:00:31 PM

Homophobic? or Heterophobic? This world is soooo interesting!

Years ago (when I was a lot younger) I discovered blue movies....I think around 1967. Then at a bucks party (around `68) I glanced at a gay blue movie and was shocked!

I thought I should be in a closet!

Their moves stirred up urges in me!
Yep!....So that`s it!....it`s out there!.....I had discovered at a very very young age that I might be a Lesbian!   :drinks:

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/05/20/watch-heterophobic-taxi-driver-turns-the-tables-on-straight-people/ (http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/05/20/watch-heterophobic-taxi-driver-turns-the-tables-on-straight-people/)
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: FeralRdr on March 03, 2016, 02:20:26 PM
Quote from: The General on March 03, 2016, 02:00:31 PM

Homophobic? or Heterophobic? This world is soooo interesting!

Years ago (when I was a lot younger) I discovered blue movies....I think around 1967. Then at a bucks party (around `68) I glanced at a gay blue movie and was shocked!

I thought I should be in a closet!

Their moves stirred up urges in me!
Yep!....So that`s it!....it`s out there!.....I had discovered at a very very young age that I might be a Lesbian!   :drinks:

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/05/20/watch-heterophobic-taxi-driver-turns-the-tables-on-straight-people/ (http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/05/20/watch-heterophobic-taxi-driver-turns-the-tables-on-straight-people/)

You too?  Does Australia at least give you a disabled parking permit for Lesbians in a Man's Body Syndrome?  My DMV rep just gives me a weird look.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: FJools on March 03, 2016, 02:27:43 PM
Going back to original post,

I think a potato on the exhaust pipe would have been good, then just stand back and watch.................
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: mark1969 on March 03, 2016, 07:04:57 PM
Quote from: Firehawk068 on March 03, 2016, 10:05:32 AM
Even if someone were to be "Homophobic", why is that a bad thing?
It is a matter of personal choice and preference, and in this day of excessive "Political Correctness" why is it frowned upon for a straight guy to voice his displeasure in seeing a public display of "2-Dudes"?

Jesus wept..  :dash2:

Quote from: Firehawk068 on March 03, 2016, 10:05:32 AMI have nothing against the Gay population. It doesn't affect me either way. I even have friends that are Gay, but I simply don't partake in that lifestyle.

You have nothing against the 'gay population' but think it's ok to frown upon two 'dudes' public display of affection...and think it's ok to be homophobic...how does that work?  :dash2:

Quote from: Firehawk068 on March 03, 2016, 10:05:32 AMSome people are more sensitive to it than others. For some it is Religious based beliefs. For others it may be moral, or scientific, or biological.
Not everyone believes in that lifestyle.

It's not a lifestyle choice, this is real people...you do know people have been gay for many thousands of years don't you?  (popcorn)

I'm going back to anonymity.

Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: gumby302ho on March 03, 2016, 07:52:32 PM
 Very touchy subject, to each there own, I dont have to like it, call me a homophobe. My mother says homosexual men are the cleanest nicest people you could ever meet. I dont care what they do but get a room or really tinted windows. Freddy Mercury and Rob Halford are two of my favorite queers of all time.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: PaulG on March 04, 2016, 08:17:47 AM
Quote from: 4everFJ on March 03, 2016, 08:20:17 AM
.....  In fact, it is probably a minority that is "normal" (whatever that is...)


A NORMAL FJ owner?   :crazy:    Hmmmmmm.......  Post it when you find one.  I'm sure there's a university out there that would pay big bucks to study one.  Kinda' like those blue lobsters, or meteorites, or two headed calfs or....
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: theLeopard on March 04, 2016, 12:50:01 PM
*thd thd* umm, is this thing on?
yes?

anal sex
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: theLeopard on March 04, 2016, 12:51:13 PM
ooc how is anal sex with a man any different than anal sex with a woman?

iirc according to biblical teaching it was sodomy AND homosexuality that led to the demise of sodom & gomorrah.

food for thought.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: Zwartie on March 04, 2016, 02:08:57 PM
..and Lot's wife was turned into a pillar of salt and later on Lot's daughters (you know, the ones he offered up to be raped) got him drunk so he would impregnate them. Perhaps we should take that book (collection of stories, legends and myths) with a grain of what became of Lot's wife. Just sayin'...

Zwartie

Quote from: theLeopard on March 04, 2016, 12:51:13 PM
ooc how is anal sex with a man any different than anal sex with a woman?

iirc according to biblical teaching it was sodomy AND homosexuality that led to the demise of sodom & gomorrah.

food for thought.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: Nova on March 04, 2016, 03:34:40 PM
I tend to get uncomfortable if I see two people getting it on hot and heavy in public. But as long as they are both consenting adults it is really none of my business even though I would prefer they get a room. But what gender, race, size, age or sexual orientation they are is the least of my concerns. I don't have any issues with latent homosexual feelings that make me overcompensate to assert my masculinity. I don't see them as a threat to me, my lifestyle, or society as a whole. So I don't think of it as 'icky' or 'disgusting'. I simply don't think of it at all because it doesn't affect me. I treat everyone with the same respect and consideration I would like afforded to me and don't concern myself with where or how or with whom they are putting their naughty bits (unless I happen to be one of the "whom").

But as far as tolerating those who do... Remember when the south said, "Okay, but if we get rid of all these Jim Crow laws the blacks are gonna need to start respecting the viewpoint of klan members because tolerance is a two way street?" Yeah, me neither. When you boil it down to its simplest form you are asking people to tolerate intolerance, which is a completely asinine request.

Golden Rule, people. If you are only going to follow one rule in your life, that's the one to pick.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: giantkiller on March 04, 2016, 09:18:20 PM
It all comes down to don't "do it" in public in the daylight.  I must admit to "doin it"with girls in public when I was younger. But it was after bar close in the middle of the night. When it's just adaults up. Or young hooligans. Who shouldn't be up.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: charleygofast on March 05, 2016, 10:19:36 AM
Inappropriate, disturbing, and maybe wrong. The times they are a changin my friends. This may have been grounds for arrest a few years back. They might have been pressed for time or caught up in the moment...still hetro or homo, in public is just wrong. I hear ya though Dan...bar time might be the exception, and if my memory is there...it often times was!!! Next time get a room guys, nobody really needs to see that.IMHO.  Hey any body want to talk about motorcycles?  :lol:            Charley.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: novaraptor on March 08, 2016, 03:38:52 PM
One should never mistake good taste for a "phobia"..
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: X-Ray on March 09, 2016, 01:16:55 AM
Hey, if 2 girls want to show their affection in public, I'll stand there all day and watch them ;)
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: ken65 on March 09, 2016, 04:54:14 AM
Quote from: X-Ray on March 09, 2016, 01:16:55 AM
Hey, if 2 girls want to show their affection in public, I'll stand there all day and watch them ;)

Bullshit  ray.  Your  wife  would grab your  earlobe,  throw  you  to the  floor  and bitch slap  you into submission. Ha. ..

As  an aside.  The  latest  just  bikes  magazine  has a full page  add  on page 65 from the  powder  coater who did your  wheels. . Guess what? Your  rims are  featured at the top photo.    They  look  good.  I can post  it  down to you  if you havent got  a copy...
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: X-Ray on March 09, 2016, 05:20:23 AM
Yeah, I would be in trouble Kenny lol.
Just Bikes eh?? Will see if I can grab a copy!!! Thanks for the heads up.
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: ken65 on March 09, 2016, 05:38:25 AM
Quote from: X-Ray on March 09, 2016, 05:20:23 AM
Yeah, I would be in trouble Kenny lol.
Just Bikes eh?? Will see if I can grab a copy!!! Thanks for the heads up.
Sorry  ray.  There  not  yours.  There  very similar.  Same  color.  Anyway   i am a stooge.   Should have  done  my  home  work. . You  bunch have a safe  trip  down south ok...
Title: Re: What has been seen...
Post by: X-Ray on March 09, 2016, 06:03:09 AM
All good will still check out the ad anyway :).  He does great work.