thanks, but i still need help!

[jenray2]

i posted about hooking up an after market HID ight kit on my FJ.  I appreciate reponses thus far, the most recent being suggested is to look up modifications on installing lights.  I am not that tech savvy at all, so am having no luck.  Can someone tell me what kind of relay i need for installing an HID light kit.  low beam wont work, high beam works fine.  it seems simple enough, but I just cant figure it out and someone suggested searching for modifications on the site, but it is so massive, I dont even know where to start!  i appreciate your help.