Where can one order a come 1989 fj1200 harness I'm losing my mind I cannot find one
You can't find one because they are no longer made. If your harness is completely beyond repair, then you will have to fabricate a harness yourself. It's really not all that hard, just tedious. There are wiring diagrams in the Files section. Just replace one wire at a time. I build wiring harnesses for airplanes so a motorcycle is pretty easy for me. Worst case... send me your old harness and I'll make you a new harness.
Bill