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Title: As published on Linkedin
Post by: racerrad8 on January 13, 2017, 04:23:09 PM
I received this published article on my LinkedIn account this morning: Hard Kindness (https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/hard-kindness-internal-power-practice-empathy-jeff-sanders)

It is written by our own member, CatTomb (http://www.fjowners.com/index.php?action=profile;u=3248)

Randy - RPM



Title: Re: As published on Linkedin
Post by: Pat Conlon on January 13, 2017, 05:11:03 PM
Yes, I agree with Jeff's observation about reciprocity of people, kindness begets kindness.
If you change the way you look at people, the people you look at, change.
Tolerance and perseverance is a virtue. Easy to aspire, often hard to do.
I am powerless over people's reactions. They have free will and often not react how I think they should.
I am not powerless over my reactions. That's on me.

Thanks Randy, thanks Jeff, my day is brighter.
Title: Re: As published on Linkedin
Post by: big r on January 13, 2017, 05:35:34 PM
A good read. That is so true, have had the same issues with a couple of neighbors here as well. It all worked out and we are at least cordial now. Big R
Title: Re: As published on Linkedin
Post by: fj johnnie on January 13, 2017, 06:38:19 PM
 Thanks Randy, excellent article. Hard kindness. Initially I thought it was because kindness was hard. LOL.
Title: Re: As published on Linkedin
Post by: CutterBill on January 14, 2017, 10:37:05 AM
You mean I have to start being nice to people?  Ugh.  Might kill me...
Title: Re: As published on Linkedin
Post by: FJ1100mjk on January 15, 2017, 06:08:50 AM
Thanks for posting this. Worth the read. Random acts of kindness, are a good thing to both give and receive. I have had the pleasure of experiencing both.
Title: Re: As published on Linkedin
Post by: FJmonkey on January 15, 2017, 10:09:44 AM
Similar to the "Pay it forward" concept. Give/kindness with no expectation of repayment. I like it.